If you are serious about wanting to find that someone special, your need to date. There is no better place to find someone then online dating, but just like regular real-world relationships, online dating relationships need tending, to grow over time, so that they actually last the distance.
So here are 3 of the best quick growing tips for a online relationship :
- Take time and make time. Ask yourself, does your online date get in touch with you regularly? Are you doing the same? Trust us, neglecting virtual meetings can be considered abuse or neglect, so treat each other’s time with respect. If it’s lacking, might mean time to move on.
If you are generally busy, or traveling where you might not be able to get the time to get online to touch base. Then make sure you Communicate to your better online half.
- Communication needs to “feel” right for both of you. If one of you is too pushy about meeting, for instance, that can give off bad vibes. So don’t rush. Take time to learn more about each other and develop trust. There is no rush, and remember the is plenty of fish in the online sea.
- Respect each others privacy. Don’t share personal email addresses or digital photos online, for example, if your online date sent you the information in confidence, don’t throw it out there for the world to see. We’ve written before about establishing online dating relationships.
- Share special online and offline fun times. Online – send greeting cards, links to favorite places to upload digital photos of your favorite pet, download music and video clips, post on favorite forums of interest. Offline- if you’re exchanging addresses or post office boxes, send print greeting cards and postcards, small items from your area (like a key chain with your state bird). Put your self out there, we get it it can be scary but you might surprise yourself.
As we said, tend your online relationship. Water it with care and over time it can sprout and grow.